The only constant is change. No matter how good or bad anything is, it will change. You can speed this up by being a catalyst! If you're still breathing, you can still make a difference. If you have an opportunity to do something, do it. If the opportunity isn't just sitting there waiting for you, MAKE your own way in. Be creative! There is always something you can do. btw: there is ALWAYS something to be thankful for. If you're stuck in a rut, start looking at the things in your life that you can be thankful for. Often this will give you an idea (or many) of some change you can make. Embrace change. Make it your friend, and get out and make a difference!